It may be at the classy restaurant downtown. It may be on that first trip to an exotic destination. Or it could be in the relaxation of home. Wherever it is, you want to make sure that first gift for a romantic interest is memorable and full of loving feeling.
A unique romantic gift can be the high point of a growing relationship, when it shows a level of understanding and empathy only present between truly compatible souls. Of course, on the other hand, nothing can be worse than a gift that shows just how serious those few faults in a newfound partner are. Let’s look at four such gifts that have spoiled even the most auspicious of relationships.
Puppy.
Imagine you just finished a enjoyable dinner with the new love of your life. You are sipping on some wine when they lean across the table with a mischievous gleam in their eye.
“I have something for you.”
You hear some faint barks in the background. The wine starts to taste a little bit sour. “Umm…”
From out of the other room springs a new, lively puppy. “We can care for it together!” Even excluding the potential of allergies, don’t buy an animal on a whim without first having a sustained talk or you can bet on raising that pup as a single parent.
Plane Tickets.
“Oh wow – plane tickets! Time to hit the beach”
That might be your first impression at seeing this romantic gift, coming from your new significant other.
With a serious look in their eye, they grab your hands.
“I think you should meet…my parents!I bought tickets to leave for the weekend!”
The filet mignon you just ate feels like a rock in your stomach. “Oh…um…”
Even if the new partner you’ve found is “the one,” please don’t bring the parents to the table too early in the game.
Especially if a visit would incorporate a long plane trip, wherein you have to suffer through security, time differences, and possible schedule conflicts. Unless carefully planned, such a romantic gift would only end in grief/regret/unhappiness.
Slim Fast.
“That was a really great movie.” “I know!” Your special person replies.
It’s late outside and the cool night breeze creates a perfect romantic atmosphere for a romantic gift.
“But you know, I’ve been worrying about something lately. I want you to take a look at this.”
They pop open their trunk and remove a carton of canned beverages. “I found this case of slim fast on sale the other day, and I’d really like you to replace a meal a day with it.”
Please make sure that the first romantic gift you give is positive in tone, and emphasizes a good quality of your new partner.
Self-improvement might come later, if at all. Too many tears have been spilled due to the well-intentioned gifters who have no sense of timing or don’t think about the underlying message behind their gift.
A New Car.
“I had a really great time today!” You’re just exiting the art gallery and feel renewed by the warm sunshine outside.
“Shhh.” Your new partner puts their finger to your mouth. “Wait until you see this.”
They pull out a key, and the shiny BMW behind them lights up with a beep. “Oh, is that your new car?” You ask.
“No baby…it’s a present for you.”
Please don’t try to “buy” your new partner’s interest. Even if your wallet and bank account are stuffed with hard-earned cash, such a display will only overwhelm them. (Unless, of course, they are that special category of person called a gold-digger)
Small, affectionate or even unique romantic gifts are often the most meaningful.
All in all, when giving romantic gifts, remember this:
Don’t give a gift that is designed more to push your agenda than to please your new love. Use your understanding and your empathy to pick something that will truly please the other. After all, isn’t a desire to please what romance is all about?
Here are a few valentine’s day gift ideas:
Sweetheart Chocolate Rose Candy Bouquet
Kama Sutra Honeydust, 8 Ounces
Celebrate your special person with I LOVE YOU red heart frame
Thats Amore! Romantic Dinner For Two – Italian Gourmet Food Gift Basket
