Finding the Perfect Valentines Gift For the Man in Your Life
Valentines Day is about flowers, chocolates and a fancy dinner, right? NOT if you are buying a gift for your man.
Most men wouldn’t even know what to do with flowers. Chocolates are great but giving them in a frilly heart shaped box? And get dressed up to go to a fancy stuffed shirt kind of restaurant, forget about it!
Remember , and forgive the simplification, but men are all about the result! In order to find a great gift for your man, remember this one thing:
- Men and Women Do Not Think The Same!
The truth is that men are just wired differently from women. Not better, not worse, just differently. So, if you’re a woman who is trying to find the right gift for your honey, as nasty as it sounds, you need to think like a man.
Men are really not that complicated. In fact it’s a whole lot easier for a women to buy a gift for her man than it is for that man to buy a gift for his women.
Why you ask, because men and women do not think the same. That is why men need so much help finding the right gift. Don’t think that’s true?
Then why are most of the advertisements during Valentines Day are aimed at men. They just need help because men are more gullible and clueless about gift giving. And unlucky is the woman who’s man sees an advertisement for a vacuum cleaner just before he does his holiday shopping. Guess what she’s going to get?
Women are just better gift givers. A woman giving a gift to another woman will almost always find just the right thing. But again, men are different.
So enough already you say, what is it that a man would want for a holiday that is already pretty confusing for him?
To start with, I’ve always thought that there should be one day just for the men and one day just for the women. So, make it all about him on the eve of this holiday and surprise him on the day before!
Doing this actually has a couple of benefits. First it allows you to celebrate your love with that special man and focus just on him. Second, it is a reminder about what is coming the next day so your forgetful lover can get prepared for your special day.
Take The Man In Your Life Out For A Man’s Night
Okay, let’s start with the obvious. Every young man, almost all middle aged men and even most older men, think about sex. A lot! So how does that help you ask?
If there are kids, get them out of the house for the night so just the two of you can be alone. Slip a sexy nightie, panties or silk stockings in his brief case or lunch box. Attach a note that says you’ll be waiting with the rest of the outfit when he gets home.
Take him out to eat later at a barbecue rib place or for pizza and a pitcher of beer. Just make it any place that he enjoys. Take him to a guys kind of movie, skip the chick flick.
Is He Into Cars? A Shiny New Tool Is The Ticket
Leatherman 830850 Skeletool CX Multitool
If he’s into cars, leave some shiny new tools wrapped with a red ribbon on his pillow for him to find when he goes to bed that night.
Does Your Man Love To Fish? Or Wish He Had More Time For Fishing?
Fishing – Fishing Lures – Coffee Gift Baskets – Coffee Gift Basket
If he’s into fishing, get some fancy new lures and hang them on a heart on his pillow.
Fill His Ears With Music Instead Of “Harping”
Apple iTunes $50 Gift Certificate Account—-Email Delivery
If he’s into music get a prepaid card for him to download music and a new MP3 player to go along with it.
You should be getting the idea by now. Find gifts that cater to his passions and you’ll create a Valentines Day memory that will be enjoyed by both of you.
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By Bob Current
You can find gift ideas and more suggestions at Bob Currents web-site http://www.thingstodoforvalentinesday.info
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